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Assalamualaikum

"Sesungguhnya setiap jiwa itu tidak akan mati kecuali dengan izin Allah dan takdir dari-Nya.Apabila sudah ditakdirkan waktunya mati, maka tidak ada pilihan lagi kecuali mati. Tidak bergeser sedikitpun. Allah berfirman:”Tiap- tiap umat mempunyai batas waktu, maka apabila telah datang waktunya mereka tidak dapat mengundurkannya barang sesaatpun dan tidak pula memajukannya” (Al-A’raaf: 34)

When the time passed by, day after day, there will be moment where someone leaving you, forever. Live my 20 years life in this world make me realized when I get older, one by one of the person I care left me for good. Early this year I lost my beloved gramma, my family's friends and a few day ago, a very great friend of mine.Innalillahwainnailaihirajio’un

NUR NADIA SALEHUDDIN

22 MAY 1988 - 17 JUNE 2009

She is young, but that reminding us that Allah can take our life anytime anywhere. Today you're healty with your love one and the next day you are gone. Hope this will increase our faith that death is something that definite, no living life will be excluded.

The moment where I spend my last time together with her was still fresh in my mind where I sit beside her at the KFC. We had a sarcastic talk fighting over Mr.Romeo, and I really miss that moment. All the helps, the outings, the gossiping moments, the movies, the dinners we had, and all the messages where you complaining about life. I can't feel the the tears flow when I realized all that will never ever happen again. Thanks for the experiences.

I cried lately, not because I am not redha with the destiny or fate written at Luh Mahfuz but as a human, it is hard to escape from a sad feeling of losing someone you knew, someone you love. However, I believe Allah has the best plans for us, the purpose for everything that happened. Pasti ada HIKMAH disebaliknya.

Allah berfirman :

Ertinya : “Tiadalah menimpa sesuatu musibah di dalam bumi ini atau di dalam dirimu sendiri, melainkan semuanya itu telah tertulis di dalam kitab, sebelum ia terjadi dahulunya. Semuanya itu bagi Allah mudah saja. Supaya janganlah kamu sekalian berdukacita mengingat barang yang telah hilang dan jangan pula bersukacita atas barang yang datang kepadamu dan Allah tidak suka kepada tiap-tiap orang yang sombong dan membangga diri” (Al-Hadid : 22-23)

Moga dia bahagia di sana. Yassin is the best gift from me for her. I will pray that someday we will meet and be together at al-Jannah. And I promise I will take a good care of our friends.

Untuk kawan-kawan,

Dalam kita berdukacita, banyakkanlah berdoa. This is the time where there are sincerity in our doa. Crying over someone that gone is useless cos it can hurt yourself.

Rasulullah SAW bersabda :“Banyak-banyaklah mengingat barang yang memusnahkan segala kelazatan itu, kerana siapa yang di dalam kesempitan, kalau dia ingat mati, dia insaf bahawa dia akan di sambut oleh kesempitan”.

I believe we can go through this phases of grief. Take this test from Allah as a rahmat from Him. That is the sign that Allah is loving all of us.

Wallahu a’la wa a’lam.

mint: Al-Fatihah